"its just a word!!"
of course its a fucking word thats how we goddamn communicate. if the fucking queen of england came and told you that you were a prince would you shrug it off as “just a word”. words have importance and its not that fucking hard to just not say certain ones
do you think when johnny depp agrees to be in a movie with a different director he goes home at night and tim burton is just there with his face pressed against the window and johnny has to close the curtains to avoid feeling guilty
you have too much time on your hands
emotional abuse is when someone does something to hurt you, and when you express your feelings, that you’re upset, they turn it around to be something you did to hurt them and they force you to apologize for it, and your feelings, like always, are rendered invalid and silenced, forever damaging the ability to trust others with your feelings because they always are used against you.
this is important because so many people don’t know this